I [am] a stranger and a sojourner with you: give me a possession of a burial place with you, that I may bury my dead out of my sight.
4. a stranger and a sojourner ] Abraham describes himself, in a proverbial phrase, as one whose origin is foreign, and whose period of residence is uncertain. LXX , Lat. advena et peregrinus; cf. Lev 25:23; 1Ch 29:15; Psa 105:12; Heb 11:9. The same phrase is employed by St Peter in 1Pe 2:11 to describe the shortness and uncertainty of life on earth, and to indicate that the true citizenship is in heaven. The “stranger,” in the Heb., belongs to the phraseology of nomad life; “the sojourner,” of settled life.
Fuente: The Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges
Gen 23:4
I am a stranger and a sojourner among you
Strangers in the earth
I.
THE EXHORTATION. A true Christians life should be that of a stranger and a sojourner.
1. Such persons are at once recognized. Marks of nationality may be more or less prominent. Sometimes the foreigner wears a strange costume, and speaks a strange language; and sometimes these things are studiously avoided; he assumes our dress, converses in our dialect; nevertheless, there is always something about him which bespeaks the sojourner. And so should it be with the Christian.
2. These peculiarities will be observable in all the common business of life. Not, indeed, in any disregard of useful industries and occupations. A wise foreigner, passing through a strange country, will make the best use of his time, mingling with its inhabitants, studying its institutions, observing its manners and customs, examining minutely its improvements in science and art, perhaps investing largely in its agricultural implements, and mechanical machinery, and scientific apparatus, and many of its products and fabrics, ornamental and useful. He may for the time appear, more even than native citizens, attentive to and engrossed by such matters; nevertheless, every man who deals with him perceives that his interest in them is that of a sojourner, who examines and purchases with a view to some use or enjoyment in his own distant land. Just so should it be with the Christian.
3. These marks of a foreigner will be manifest in all the pleasures of life.
4. A foreigner may be known by the opinions he forms and expresses of all things that surround him. Many such things, which to us, through custom and familiarity, seem proper and consistent and natural, will often strike him strangely. This point is finely illustrated in Oliver Goldsmiths Citizen of the World.
II. As A CONSOLATION. If we are strangers and sojourners on earth, then–
1. Our better portion and grander heritage and home are in heaven. Like the patriarchs, we should look for a city whose maker is God! and, like the apostles, should rejoice to think that presently we shall be absent from the body and present with the Lord.
2. Strangers and foreigners think ever and most tenderly of their distant native lands. Of the dear doors that will open, and the loved voices that will welcome them, when, having accomplished the ends of their brief sojourn in those stranger-scenes, they cross the ocean, and cast anchor in distant harbours, and go ashore to their own cities. And herein they should be our models. Good as Christian life may be on the earth, yet there are better things in heaven. (The Preachers Monthly.)
The believer and the world; or, Abraham the stranger and sojourner
We shall attempt the task of analysing the relations which Abraham sustained to his heathen neighbours. We perceive at once that they were those of entire friendliness, but of absolute separation. We shall follow, therefore, this simple division of the subject of this chapter.
I. HIS FRIENDLINESS. Mark you, not his friendship. Let it not be implied that there was any agreement of his principles with theirs, any community of interests between them, or any sympathy in character. He was indeed their friend, but he was not their fellow, and in his friendship there was no fellowship whatsoever. Their life was abhorrent to him. Their practices were such as gave him the greatest pain. The neighbours of Abraham were cruel, covetous, and licentious beyond the very conception of the vast majority who live in Christian lands to-day. But Abraham never ceased to be on friendly terms with them. He never manifested towards them an amicable disposition, treated them with noticeable courtesy and did them signal favours. But Abraham always kept the peace, and never made an enemy among them all. Some of the stories are exceedingly beautiful, as illustrating the existing friendliness. Look, for example, at that of the covenant between Abimelech and Abraham. The feelings which neighbouring chiefs entertained toward Abraham is nowhere better shown than at the time of the sack of Sodom and the capture of Lot and his family. But this was not all. His magnanimity took a higher form and his friendliness was of nobler nature than could possibly have been displayed in any affair of temporal character. Those heathen lay upon his heart. No one ever pleaded for guilty men as Abraham did–save only their Divine Saviour. A praying friend is the best friend, and such was Abraham!
II. Is it possible, then, for one who shows such friendliness to the ungodly, to be also ABSOLUTELY SEPARATE, from them? Yes, Abraham made it plain: so plain that it was clear, not only in his own secret soul–as is so often the case; but clear also to all among whom he sojourned. They would have been glad to have had him identify himself with them. But he would not do so. Nearly seventy years he lived among them; but he was not of them. He was a confederate only, never a compatriot; a sojourner, never a citizen. As his separation from these sinners is the important thing for us to study, note the following particulars wherein it was manifested. Beginning with the simpler, observe that it appeared–
1. In the food which he ate. A trifling thing, you say, but nothing is trifling whereby the holy is set apart from the unholy. Leaven is produced by fermentation, and fermentation is a species of corruption. Therefore Abraham would have none of it. So, when the three angels appeared to him as he sat in his tent door (Gen 18:1-5)he was ready to entertain them, and offered at once to fetch them a morsel of bread for their comfort. Ah! it is worth our while to remember that in just such trifles there is a vast difference between the clean and the unclean. As some one has so wisely said, it is by trifles that we reach perfection, and perfection is no trifle.
2. In his dwelling. It was a tent, which could be easily moved from place to place. Had Abraham ever built a house, the whole meaning of his outward life would have been destroyed. It would have indicated that he had come to stay, and have rendered ridiculous his declaration, I am a sojourner with you.
3. In his private business. His avocation was in keeping with his mission, and his covenant relations to his God. He did not mingle with the ungodly multitudes. The cities, with the glare and glitter of their iniquitous life, had no attraction for him. Lot became covetous of their wealth, ambitious for their preferment, and settled in Sodom; but Lot was not a party to the everlasting covenant–not a church-member.
4. In his business transactions. He must needs have dealings with men of the world; but he so dealt with them as to emphasize his separateness. He became rich, but he never manifested any undue haste to be rich, nor took any short cut to fortune. Observe several illustrations. What a noble spirit he manifested in the dissolution of the partnership existing between himself and Lot. But his principles are more plain, if possible, in his transaction with Ephron, the Hittite (Gen 23:1-20.). The custom of the country was not the law of his life. He was the only man in all the land who conducted his business in this way.
5. Once more: his separation from the world appears in his conquest of the world. Though Abraham was a man of peace, as we have seen, yet it seems most appropriate that once, at least, in his long life, he should have exhibited his peculiar power over the men and agencies of this world. It was spiritual power for physical ends–something of which the world as yet knows little. Chedorlaomer and his allies had sacked Sodom, and were hastening away with the spoils and captives. (D. R. Breed, D. D.)
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Fuente: Biblical Illustrator Edited by Joseph S. Exell
Verse 4. I am a stranger and a sojourner] It appears from Heb 11:13-16; 1Pe 2:11, that these words refer more to the state of his mind than of his body. He felt that he had no certain dwelling place, and was seeking by faith a city that had foundations.
Give me a possession of a burying place] It has been remarked that in different nations it was deemed ignominious to be buried in another’s ground; probably this prevailed in early times in the east, and it may be in reference to a sentiment of this kind that Abraham refuses to accept the offer of the children of Heth to bury in any of their sepulchres, and earnestly requests them to sell him one, that he might bury his wife in a place that he could claim as his own.
Fuente: Adam Clarke’s Commentary and Critical Notes on the Bible
The privilege of burial hath been always sought and prized by all nations, whom nature and humanity teacheth to preserve the bodies of men, which have been the temples of reasonable and immortal souls, from contempt and violation; so especially by Christians, as a testimony and pledge of their future resurrection. See Num 33:4; Deu 31:23; Job 5:26. For which cause Abraham desires a distinct burying-place separated from the pagan people.
With you, in Canaan. There he, and after him other patriarchs, earnestly desired to be buried, upon this account, that it might confirm their own and their children’s faith in God’s promise, and animate their children in due time to take possession of the land. See Gen 25:9; 47:29-30; 50:13,25; Exo 13:19; Heb 11:22.
That I may bury my dead out of my sight; so she that before was the desire of his eyes, Eze 24:16, is now, being dead, become their torment.
Fuente: English Annotations on the Holy Bible by Matthew Poole
I [am] a stranger and a sojourner with you,…. Not a native of the place, only dwelt as a sojourner among them for a time; but had not so much as a foot of ground he could call his own, and consequently had no place to inter his dead:
give me a possession of a buryingplace with you; not that he desired it as a free gift, but that he might be allowed to make a purchase of a piece of ground to bury his dead in; so the Targum of Jonathan,
“sell me a possession,” c.
Ge 23:9 and this he was the rather desirous of, not only because it was according to the rules of humanity, and the general custom of all nations, to provide for the burial of their dead; but he was willing to have such a place in the land of Canaan for this purpose, to strengthen his faith and the faith of his posterity, and to animate their hope and expectation of being one day put into the possession of it; hence the patriarchs in later times, as Jacob and Joseph, were desirous of having their hones laid there:
that I may bury my dead out of my sight; for, though Sarah was a very lovely person in her life, and greatly desirable by Abraham, yet death had changed her countenance and was turning her into corruption, which rendered her unpleasant, and began to make her loathsome; so that there was a necessity of removing her out of his sight, who before had been so very agreeable to him; and this is the case of the dearest relation and friend at death.
Fuente: John Gill’s Exposition of the Entire Bible
4. I am a stranger and a sojourner with you. This introductory sentence tends to one or other of these points; either that he may more easily gain what he desires by suppliantly asking for it; or that he may remove all suspicion of cupidity on his part. He therefore confesses, that, since he had only a precarious abode among them, he could possess no sepulcher, unless by their permission. And because, during life, they have permitted him to dwell within their territory, it was the part of humanity, not to deny him a sepulcher for his dead. If this sense be approved, then Abraham both conciliates their favor to himself, by his humility, and in declaring that the children of Heth had dealt kindly with him, he stimulates them, by this praise, to proceed in the exercise of the same liberality with which they had begun. The other sense, however, is not incongruous; namely, that Abraham, to avert the odium which might attach to him as a purchaser, declares that he desires the possession, not for the advantage of the present life, not from ambition or avarice, but only in order that his dead may not lie unburied; as if he had said, I do not refuse to continue to live a stranger among you, as I have hitherto done; I do not desire your possessions, in order that I may have something of my own, which may enable me hereafter to contend for equality with you; it is enough for me to have a place where we may be buried.
Fuente: Calvin’s Complete Commentary
(4) A possession of a buryingplace.While strangers might pasture their cattle upon the open downs, yet the consent of the natives seems to have been necessary before Abraham could occupy any spot permanently (Gen. 15:13; Gen. 20:15). He now wanted even more, and for the actual appropriation of any portion of the soil a public compact and purchase was required, which must be ratified not merely by the seller but by the consent of all the tribe, convened in full assembly at the gate of the city. Thus, in spite of his power and wealth, Abraham, as regards his legal position towards the inhabitants, was but a stranger and sojourner (Heb. 11:9), and could secure a resting- place for his dead only by their consent.
Fuente: Ellicott’s Commentary for English Readers (Old and New Testaments)
4. I am a stranger and a sojourner Though heir of the world (Rom 4:13) and rich in promised possessions, he confessed himself but a stranger and a pilgrim, (comp . Heb 11:13-16,) and never owned a place of rest except his grave .
A possession of a burying place “This is the first mention of burial. It was noted by the heathen historian as a characteristic of the Jews, that they preferred to bury their dead rather than to burn them. Tacitus, Hist. 5: 5. It is observable that this is first mentioned when the first death takes place in the family of him who had received the promises. The care of the bodies of the departed is a custom apparently connected with the belief in their sanctity as vessels of the grace of God, and with the hope that they may be raised again in the day of the restitution of all things.” Speaker’s Commentary.
Gen 23:4. I am a stranger, &c. There is something affecting in the venerable patriarch’s declaration and request: a stranger in the land of promise, and inheriting no part of it, he requests the possession of a burying-place only for his beloved wife, himself, and family. The Orientals, as Le Clerc observes, seem to have had the same notion about burying-places, which afterwards prevailed among the Greeks and Romans, namely, that it was ignominious to be buried in another’s ground; and therefore every family, the poorer sort excepted, had a sepulchre of their own, nor would suffer others to be interred with them. One cannot fail to remark, that interring seems to have been the most ancient, as well as the most natural way of disposing of the dead. “To me,” says Cicero, “that appears to have been the most ancient kind of sepulture, which Cyrus, in Xenophon, is said to have made use of. For thus the body is returned to the earth whence it was taken, and so placed and situated, is hid as it were in the womb of the common mother.” De legibus, lib. ii. c. 22.
I am a stranger and a sojourner with you: give me a possession of a buryingplace with you, that I may bury my dead out of my sight.
Act 7:5 . How sweetly David made use of the same expression, and converted it into a motive for prayer. Psa 39:12-13 . Reader! while we behold Abraham parting with his beloved Sarah, and desiring to bury her remains out of his sight; think, what a blessed relief it is to consider, that the covenant relationship with Jesus, rots not in the grave. When the comeliness of his people is turned to corruption, their ashes are equally precious to him as when their bodies were animated. Delightful thought! Yes, thou dearest Redeemer, the covenant of redemption holds good as ever in the grave; by thy death thou hast slain the enmity of the grave: and by thy resurrection secured the resurrection of thy people. Death as well as life is ours, if Jesus be ours. 1Co 3:22-23 .
Gen 23:4 I [am] a stranger and a sojourner with you: give me a possession of a buryingplace with you, that I may bury my dead out of my sight.
Ver. 4. That I may bury my dead out of my sight. ] She that had been “the desire of his eyes,” Eze 24:16 the sweet companion of his life, is by death so defaced, that he loathes to look on her. This we are to think on in our mourning for the dead; to bewail the common curse of mankind, the defacing of God’s image by death through sin, &c. And yet to comfort ourselves in this, that these “vile bodies” of ours, shall once be “conformed to Christ’s glorious body,” Php 3:21 the standard in incorruption, agility, beauty, brightness, and other most blessed and inconceivable parts and properties.
I am. Compare “thou art”, Gen 23:6.
stranger and a sojourner. Compare 1Pe 2:11. Psa 39:12.
buryingplace
Cf. Gen 33:19; Gen 50:13; Jos 24:32; Act 7:15; Act 7:16. A discrepancy in these statements has been fancied. It disappears entirely before the natural supposition that in the interval of about eighty years between the purchase by Abraham of the family sepulchre Gen 23:4-20 and Jacob’s purchase Gen 33:19, the descendants of Hamor (or “Emmor,” Act 7:15; Act 7:16 had resumed possession of the field in which the burial cave was situated. Instead of asserting an ancient title by inheritance, Jacob repurchased the field. Heth was the common ancestor.
stranger: Gen 17:8, Gen 47:9, Lev 25:23, 1Ch 29:15, Psa 39:12, Psa 105:12, Psa 105:13, Psa 119:19, Heb 11:9, Heb 11:13-16, 1Pe 2:11
burying place: Gen 3:19, Gen 49:30, Gen 50:13, Job 30:23, Ecc 6:3, Ecc 12:5, Ecc 12:7, Act 7:5
bury: Gen 23:19
Reciprocal: Gen 15:15 – buried Gen 37:1 – wherein his father was a stranger Exo 6:4 – the land of their 1Ch 21:23 – Take it Joh 11:39 – Lord
Gen 23:4. I am a stranger and a sojourner with you Therefore I am unprovided, and must become a suiter to you for a burying-place. This was one occasion which Abraham took to confess that he was a stranger and a pilgrim upon earth. The death of our relations should effectually put us in remembrance, that we are not at home in this world. That I may bury my dead out of my sight Death will make those unpleasant to our sight, who, while they lived, were the desire of our eyes. The countenance that was fresh and lively becomes pale and ghastly, and fit to be removed into the land of darkness.
Fuente: Whedon’s Commentary on the Old and New Testaments
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Fuente: John Trapp’s Complete Commentary (Old and New Testaments)
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Fuente: The Treasury of Scripture Knowledge
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